Kindness

If you are anything like me, you are kinder to everyone but yourself. At least, that is what feels like your first nature. You care more about being kind to someone else because you don't want to offend them. You are kinder to most strangers than you are to yourself. Sound like you? No, then …

Life’s Reflection

On Tuesday we talked about taking up space. Today I want to talk about how we are living life. For most of my life I lived my life so I didn't upset specific people and so I could earn the love of other specific people. As I got older, moved out on my own, and …

Life’s Reflection

On Tuesday we talked about taking up space. Today I want to talk about how we are living life. For most of my life I lived my life so I didn't upset specific people and so I could earn the love of other specific people. As I got older, moved out on my own, and …

Rise to Your Potential

Never let a good crisis go to waste. It's the universe challenging you to learn something new and rise to the next level of your potential."Kristen Ulmer I read this quote in Tribe of Mentors by Tim Ferriss and immediately it dawned on me that this is life right now. We are all living in …

I Don't Know How to Set Goals

I'm not a goal setter. Goals are too restrictive. I was never taught how to set goals. Goals aren't achievable in my life. I've set goals before but have never accomplished them, it's no use. Have you ever caught yourself saying or thinking any of those? I have. The one I used to use the …

Winning

Throughout our lives, we are so frequently in competition. Regardless of whether we are in competition with ourselves or someone else, winning is always the end game. The problem is that so many of us see winning as the only part of the game. It's either you win or you lose. We easily forget that …